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This Space Is Yours
Take a breath. This is your space to pause, reflect, and move forward at your own pace.
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Thirty days in. You didn’t lose him — you got your dignity back.
You don’t need answers from him. His behavior already answered you.
You survived the version of you that begged for the bare minimum.
Get so focused on your own life that whether he reaches out stops mattering.
You’re not pulling away to get a reaction. You’re pulling away to get your power back.
If he comes back, it’ll be because you stopped chasing — not because you waited.
Choosing yourself starts feeling different when you realize how much you were settling.
Do something else. Obsessing won’t give you answers.
No amount of chasing or begging will change his mind — it’ll just make you look desperate.
Three weeks in. You’re starting to detach.
God will not let the best you’ve had be the best you’ll ever have.
What would you tell a friend if she were in your situation?
Someone who truly wanted you wouldn’t risk losing you.
Sometimes the hardest thing is also the right thing.
Texting him might feel good for a moment — then you’ll end up right back here again.
You ignored red flags because you were focused on potential.
Two weeks in. This is usually when clarity starts hitting.
You probably think more about him than he thinks about you in general.
Someone who wants you doesn’t keep you guessing.
The more unbothered you are, the more bothered he becomes.
If it was meant for you, it wouldn’t feel this confusing.
If he really liked you, you wouldn’t be wondering if he did.
You don’t need closure. You need self-respect.
One week in. Notice how nothing bad happened when you stopped chasing.
Missing him doesn’t make you weak. It makes you human.
At this point, texting him again would just be embarrassing.
The thing you and him had in common? Neither of you liked you enough.
If reaching out actually worked, you wouldn’t be here trying not to.
Having access to you is a privilege — not something he gets whenever it suits him.
You weren’t asking for too much. You were asking the wrong person.
